I was so touched by some of my lady friend's comments on Facebook after I shared my blog yesterday about my introversion and social awkwardness. Two of them also said they were also introverted, but there was "nothing wrong with that!" My heart was really warmed.
It occurred to me, after a bit of pondering that 30+ years ago, when we all worked together, we would often hit happy hour after work. And I would inevitably consume too much alcohol in order to "loosen up". We had some wild times. I cannot remember much of those times. But what I do recall is the hangover the next day. To our credit, I don't think we missed work. We just all crawled in and groaned and moaned and commiserated together. Someone would always go on a cheeseburger and fry run. That seemed to be best remedy.
I no longer drink. At least not to that extent. Maybe a glass of red wine or a beer occasionally.
But I am proud to say that I enjoy being healthy and sober. I have come a long way!
Yesterday I was tempted to throw back a few drinks in order to feel comfortable. But the sensible me told me not to. Sometimes we learn more about ourselves in the midst of our discomfort.
Plus, I had plans to get together with my niece and grand-niece later. Would not be a good role model to show up plastered!
So, I am feeling good about my socializing yesterday. And I am looking forward to our next get together.
Today was lunch with family day. Only my daughter and I showed up. Oh, and my baby granddaughter was present, in utero. :) It was a very nice lunch. I rarely get time with just my daughter. I treasure it. It is refreshing to just say exactly how we feel and to pick on each other (in a loving way of course!)
Today was also "D" day. Monday afternoon is the day I see my new favorite bus driver. His name is "D".
I am not going to jinx this by making too much of it, but we had a really nice visit today. Our conversation flows easily. A bit of flirtation mixed with some friendly banter. He seems genuinely interested. And I am slightly interested back.
Whatever happens, this is very enjoyable. It took me 55 years to learn how to get to know a man of the male species. Perhaps there is hope for me yet?
And p.s., I snuck a look at his left hand. No wedding ring!
But again, I am not attached to any outcome with this encounter. He just puts a smile on my face.
And I will leave it at that!
Happy Monday!
I am feeling the spirit of "joy" today!
Talk to you tomorrow.
Zita
It occurred to me, after a bit of pondering that 30+ years ago, when we all worked together, we would often hit happy hour after work. And I would inevitably consume too much alcohol in order to "loosen up". We had some wild times. I cannot remember much of those times. But what I do recall is the hangover the next day. To our credit, I don't think we missed work. We just all crawled in and groaned and moaned and commiserated together. Someone would always go on a cheeseburger and fry run. That seemed to be best remedy.
I no longer drink. At least not to that extent. Maybe a glass of red wine or a beer occasionally.
But I am proud to say that I enjoy being healthy and sober. I have come a long way!
Yesterday I was tempted to throw back a few drinks in order to feel comfortable. But the sensible me told me not to. Sometimes we learn more about ourselves in the midst of our discomfort.
Plus, I had plans to get together with my niece and grand-niece later. Would not be a good role model to show up plastered!
So, I am feeling good about my socializing yesterday. And I am looking forward to our next get together.
Today was lunch with family day. Only my daughter and I showed up. Oh, and my baby granddaughter was present, in utero. :) It was a very nice lunch. I rarely get time with just my daughter. I treasure it. It is refreshing to just say exactly how we feel and to pick on each other (in a loving way of course!)
Today was also "D" day. Monday afternoon is the day I see my new favorite bus driver. His name is "D".
I am not going to jinx this by making too much of it, but we had a really nice visit today. Our conversation flows easily. A bit of flirtation mixed with some friendly banter. He seems genuinely interested. And I am slightly interested back.
Whatever happens, this is very enjoyable. It took me 55 years to learn how to get to know a man of the male species. Perhaps there is hope for me yet?
And p.s., I snuck a look at his left hand. No wedding ring!
But again, I am not attached to any outcome with this encounter. He just puts a smile on my face.
And I will leave it at that!
Happy Monday!
I am feeling the spirit of "joy" today!
Talk to you tomorrow.
Zita
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